Recently my friends accomplished one of their major life events, a friend who recently got his PhD will start a position as lecturer in university, the other friend he is preparing for his wedding ceremony. I feel happy and admire that they are finally reached a milestone of their life before their’s 30s. Since their graduations from university, we keep in contact and share our stories though I have been doing my postgraduates research and was stumbling with lab works. I could feel what they’d suffered: the frustration after experiments fails, the reluctance of fleeing Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, the thrills when they got new positions and their sense of calm when their position, life stabilized, all these sharing becomes to a window for my to observe the reality of life.
Congrats! my friends.
最近我的很要好的朋友们都完成了他们人生中的一件大事. 发小同学已经拿到了博士degree和大学讲师的职位， 我的大学室友正在筹办婚礼终于和女朋友修成正果. 终于大家都赶在三十岁之前完成了一milestone, 替他们感到高兴, 也非常的敬佩. 这些年来他们在不断地遭受工作生活带来的一切, 求职成功的兴奋, 实验失败的苦闷, 逃离北上广的不愤, 最后生活稳定下来带来心态上的平稳. 在我的本科生涯之后, 每天紧张的实验让我不堪其扰, 因此并没有和他们频繁联系. 但从他们的三言两语中, 感受到他们的焦虑也是打开了我观察生活的一扇窗.